Neuroscience has a very fancy term for something your kindergarten teacher already knew: name it to tame it. Dr. Dan Siegel coined the phrase. The research behind it is solid: when you put a name to an emotion, activity in the amygdala — the brain’s alarm system — decreases. The emotion doesn’t disappear. But it …

The DBT TIPP skill changes your body chemistry fast when emotions take over. Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, Paired muscle relaxation — here’s how to use it.

You’ve been told to do a body scan. You’ve fallen asleep every time. This one’s different. The classic body scan — lie down, close your eyes, slowly move your attention from toes to head — is genuinely useful. It’s also genuinely easy to abandon after thirty seconds when your brain decides it has better things …