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Name It to Tame It

Neuroscience has a very fancy term for something your kindergarten teacher already knew: name it to tame it. Dr. Dan Siegel coined the phrase. The research behind it is solid: when you put a name to an emotion, activity in the amygdala — the brain’s alarm system — decreases. The emotion doesn’t disappear. But it …

Steam from a hot shower — practicing mindfulness of current activity

TIPP: When Your Brain Is on Fire

The DBT TIPP skill changes your body chemistry fast when emotions take over. Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, Paired muscle relaxation — here’s how to use it.

Woman eating mindfully at home — DBT Participate skill in everyday life

The Body Scan You’ll Actually Finish

You’ve been told to do a body scan. You’ve fallen asleep every time. This one’s different. The classic body scan — lie down, close your eyes, slowly move your attention from toes to head — is genuinely useful. It’s also genuinely easy to abandon after thirty seconds when your brain decides it has better things …

Radical Acceptance DBT word cloud showing acceptance, distress tolerance, and emotional regulation concepts

Radical Acceptance: The Skill That Isn’t Giving Up

Radical Acceptance is a DBT distress tolerance skill — not giving up, not approval, just stopping the war with reality. Here’s how it works.

Radical Acceptance DBT word cloud showing acceptance, distress tolerance, and emotional regulation concepts

Real People, Real Skills: She Survived 9/11 and Still Had to Learn How to Accept Her Life

Miosotys Santiago survived childhood trauma, a psychiatric hospitalization, and narrowly escaped Tower One on 9/11. What eventually helped wasn’t strength. It was acceptance.

Woman eating mindfully at home — DBT Participate skill in everyday life

Declare One Minute Sacred

One minute a day. You have it. You’ve spent longer than that staring at your refrigerator hoping new food would appear. Set a timer. Sit down. Close your eyes. Just notice breathing — not control it, just notice it. When thoughts arrive (and they will, loudly, with opinions), nod at them and return to the …

Woman meditating by open window

The Breathing Trick That Actually Works

Box breathing. Four counts in, four counts hold, four counts out, four counts hold. It’s used by Navy SEALs, surgeons, and people who are absolutely losing it before a first date. The reason it works is annoyingly simple: slow breathing activates your parasympathetic nervous system and signals to your body that the tiger is, in …

Steam from a hot shower — practicing mindfulness of current activity

Real People, Real Skills: The Girl Who Counted Backward From Ten

At 13, Hannah’s anxiety was destroying her friendships and her family. DBT gave her something no one had before: a way to actually interrupt the flood. This is how it started.

Woman feeling stressed by political and economic news

When the News Feels Like Too Much: Coping With Political and Economic Stress

We’re living through a particularly heavy moment. Tariff uncertainty, inflation that won’t fully let go, a job market that feels frozen, political division that has seeped into family dinners and social feeds — it’s a lot. And if you’re feeling it in your chest, your sleep, or your patience, you’re not alone. The American Psychological …