Wise Mind: The Part of You That Already Knows
Wise Mind is a core DBT skill — the quiet intersection of your emotions and your logic. Here’s what it feels like and how to access it.
The Breathing Trick That Actually Works
Box breathing. Four counts in, four counts hold, four counts out, four counts hold. It’s used by Navy SEALs, surgeons, and people who are absolutely losing it before a first date. The reason it works is annoyingly simple: slow breathing activates your parasympathetic nervous system and signals to your body that the tiger is, in …
Real People, Real Skills: The Girl Who Counted Backward From Ten
At 13, Hannah’s anxiety was destroying her friendships and her family. DBT gave her something no one had before: a way to actually interrupt the flood. This is how it started.
When the News Feels Like Too Much: Coping With Political and Economic Stress
We’re living through a particularly heavy moment. Tariff uncertainty, inflation that won’t fully let go, a job market that feels frozen, political division that has seeped into family dinners and social feeds — it’s a lot. And if you’re feeling it in your chest, your sleep, or your patience, you’re not alone. The American Psychological …
Journaling for People Who Hate Journaling
You don’t have to write about your feelings in a leather-bound notebook by candlelight. Try this instead: every evening, write three sentences. One thing that happened. One thing you noticed. One thing you’re glad about. That’s it. No introspection required. No flowing prose. Just three sentences before you doomscroll. Over time, you’ll have an accidentally …
Do One Thing Annoyingly Slowly
Pick a routine task — washing dishes, folding laundry, making coffee — and do it at half speed. Feel every plate. Notice the warm water. Fold like each shirt is a ceremony. This is maddening for about 90 seconds, then something shifts. You stop fighting the task and start doing it. Zen teachers have been …
Your Anxiety Isn’t the Problem. The Problem Is the Problem.
A guide to coping with political anxiety in an era where the news reads like a fever dream Therapists across America are reporting something unprecedented: people are initiating therapy specifically because of politics. Not a divorce. Not a job loss. Not a family crisis. Politics. According to a recent piece in Politico Magazine, clinics are …
The Republican Party Defunded Your Kid’s Mental Health Support. Let’s Talk About That.
While children across America struggle through a mental health crisis, Republican leadership at the state and federal level has systematically pulled the funding that schools desperately need. From Cincinnati to California, this is a political choice — and it demands a political answer. Let’s be clear from the start: the school districts cutting mental health …
Phone Down, Eyes Up
Try this experiment: the next time you’re waiting — for coffee, for a friend, for an elevator — don’t reach for your phone. Just stand there. Be a person in a room. Watch what happens. You’ll notice things: the barista’s very precise method for wiping the counter, the stranger who smiles because you accidentally made …
The Shower Is Not a Planning Session
Your shower is not a boardroom. Please stop using it as one. Instead of mentally rehearsing tomorrow’s meeting or relitigating Tuesday’s argument, try noticing the water temperature, the smell of the shampoo, the sound of the spray. Your brain will revolt immediately and try to pivot back to “so anyway, what I should have said …